I am now headed back for America. I left my home stay in Bali on May 14th at 3pm and drove 2 hours to the airport. I have another 32 hours of flying/layovers to go followed by a four hour drive home from Charlotte. I am ready to say the least.
I have loved Bali. I love the people, the character, and "most" of the food. I have been tested and challenged, but in the end I have made a few great friends. Today, was the best day I have had with my family. We hung out at the home stay, made paper origami, colored, and finished my packing. They even drove me to the airport although the program provided transportation.
To Bali I say, we will meet again. To America I say, I am finally coming home!!!
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Bali, you will be missed
The 13 things that I will miss the most? (in no specific order)
The Orphanage Kids
The Monkeys
The Balinese Holidays
Bu Ary's sneaky pics
The Sights
Our Teachers
My Village Family
My Java Family
My Bedulu Family
Random Street People
The Girls
The View
The Street Corn
13 Day countdown until America.
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Writing week
The past couple of weeks have been packed with interviews, orphanage visits, and writing! I now have 4 days to compile my observations into a 20-40 page research paper. I will then return to Bedulu to see my home stay family. We give presentations, take an oral Indonesian exam, and head off the island to take a snorkeling trip. The countdown has begun... I will be home on May 15th. Am I excited? yes. Sad? very. I have grown to love Bali... Especially Sanur where I have been living. It is the Murrells Inlet of Bali. It is a fishing town located on the ocean. Nights are full of live music, dancing, and gathering with locals, tourists, and regulars. Although I have been living alone I have met many people and I have made many friends.
Now, back to the orphanage visits.
I have visited three orphanages... One Christian, one Hindu, and one Muslim. Some interesting things I have discovered are none of the three orphanages allow adoptions. I have found adoptions are very difficult in Indonesia. By not allowing adoptions, the orphanages can ensure the children receive an education and that the children will not end up in the wrong hands. Also, education is the most important thing to all of the organizations. Most of the kids at all of the organizations have parents, but their families can not afford schooling or food. The children remain at the same orphanage until they graduate from senior high school.
I enjoyed my visits to all three orphanage, but I admit I enjoyed my time the most at Elisama. Elisama takes in children as young as two years old. These children were wild, hyper, and active. The other two orphanages only take in children at Elementary school age or about 6 or older.
I will try to write again in the next two weeks, but for now I must return to writing my ISP paper. I look forward to seeing everyone soon.
Now, back to the orphanage visits.
I have visited three orphanages... One Christian, one Hindu, and one Muslim. Some interesting things I have discovered are none of the three orphanages allow adoptions. I have found adoptions are very difficult in Indonesia. By not allowing adoptions, the orphanages can ensure the children receive an education and that the children will not end up in the wrong hands. Also, education is the most important thing to all of the organizations. Most of the kids at all of the organizations have parents, but their families can not afford schooling or food. The children remain at the same orphanage until they graduate from senior high school.
I enjoyed my visits to all three orphanage, but I admit I enjoyed my time the most at Elisama. Elisama takes in children as young as two years old. These children were wild, hyper, and active. The other two orphanages only take in children at Elementary school age or about 6 or older.
I will try to write again in the next two weeks, but for now I must return to writing my ISP paper. I look forward to seeing everyone soon.
Happy Birthday Momma! Love You.
Monday, April 15, 2013
Elisama Orphanage
Today was my first day visiting a Christian orphanage. I will remain for the remainder of the week and visit Hindu and Muslim orphanages next week. Below is a summary of only the first day!
I also noticed the staff and older children digging through the hair of the younger children. I didn't ask but I am assuming lice is an issue there. I have learned from SIT staff that lice is common in Bali, especially in schools and orphanages.
I arrived at
Elisama around 9:30 am. I walked in to children running out the gate
and all around. I was greeted by a staff member who asked me where I
was from, my age, and what I am studying. She invited me to play with
the children and I did just that for the next 3 hours. At first I was
slightly uncomfortable. The children were uncertain why I was there
and they couldn't understand me. And to be honest, I wasn't sure why
I was there. But after a few minutes, a jump rope was pulled out and
the games began. Three girls aged 7, 8, and 9 took a special liking
to me. They showed me around, brought me water, and taught me new
games. I eventually pulled out my notebook and asked their names and
ages. The three girls, Naomi (7), Ayumi (8), and Maria (9) brought
every child to me and helped me spell their name. In the end I had
met all 37 children. Some of the older boys also joined in the fun
and chased down the younger children.
After a while the
children asked about my family. They asked if I had parents and where
they were. I knew they were orphans, but asked about their families
also. Some of them have siblings, and some even have parents.
Unfortunately they are uncertain of where these family members now
live.
I learned about
their school and that they only live and eat at Elisama. They go to
school in their uniforms with the other children in the area. They
also asked me about my religion and were very excited that I said I
was a Christian like them! They are very smart and even knew the
difference between Protestants and Catholics. The discussion of
religion ended their, but I found some Bibles in Indonesian on the
counters.
They pulled out a
school book and we read the English words together. They are learning
how to say school supplies in English in school.
They all joined
together for lunch around noon and I sat outside with some of the
younger children during this time. Angel, a 4 year old, used my
notebook as a coloring book. I didn't mind since I have plenty of
notebooks supplied by ISP.
I also noticed the staff and older children digging through the hair of the younger children. I didn't ask but I am assuming lice is an issue there. I have learned from SIT staff that lice is common in Bali, especially in schools and orphanages.
After lunch Ayumi
came and sat with me until my ride arrived. She learned to spell my
name and wrote Shelly loves Jesus in her notebook. She scratched out
Shelly loves and wrote Jesus loves Shelly. She then rewrote the
saying in the front cover of my notebook.
When I left the
children looked sad. I assured them that I would be back the next day
and that I too love Jesus.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Living alone
On Day one of ISP, i was still scrambling to find a place to live for the month. With a 600 dollar allowance from SIT, I am working with a budget. I booked a hotel room at Dewi Dewi Villas for my first night. It was 15 dollars for a last minute booking. Surprisingly, I loved it. I spent the afternoon searching for a cheap accomadation including AC, Wifi, and a clean room. Everything was at least 400 dollars a month. I asked Dewi Dewi Villas about their monthly rate and it came out to 500 dollars a month.
Luckily, the owner just opened up another hotel down the street and she offered to show me. It doesn't have a pool but they said I can use the pool at Dewi Dewi Villas. I visited and it has, hot water, AC, a TV and a clean room. No Wifi, and no refrigerator. But Guess What. They were planning on putting both in eventually and agreed to add wifi the next day and bring me a refrigerator. And the price you may be asking... 250 for a month. It is not on the beach, but is about a 15 minute walk. Besides, who needs to pay extra for a beach when I can go home to a pool in my backyard, and the Atlantic ocean 3 minutes down the road.
My room companion...
I left the rats, chickens, birds, and lizards at my last homestay, but don't worry I won't be bored. There is a neighborhood dog that has already made himself at home on my front porch! He is as cute as can be. I give him water, but I don't have anything to feed him.
ISP Problems:
Well I haven't actually begun my research for several reasons.
1. I was searching for a room
2. The water isn't coming out of the shower for some reason, sooo I haven't showered in a couple days
3. I have to buy a new camera since mine has decided not to work anymore and I want to document every moment with the children
4. I still have an awful cough and I am trying to get rested and a little healthier before spending a lot of time around children.
However, the refrigerator and a water dispenser have been installed and wifi will be installed tomorrow.
A couple pictures of my new home taken by my computer.
bench in the downstairs
bathroom, closet, and stairs leading upstairs
Not in photo: (to the left of the stairs is a sink, refrigerator, counter, and water dispenser)
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huge closet
Not in photo: upstairs is a big bed and TV
Monday, April 1, 2013
the end of class
Class time is coming to an end. We have one week left in which we will turn in a paper, present our art projects (which we still have to finish), take an oral Bahasa Indonesian Exam, and our final exam on our seminars. On top of this busy week we are translating our Independent Study Project Questions, finding a place to live, setting up interviews, packing up our rooms, and preparing to live alone for the next month.
For my month of research, I am currently planning on renting a room in Sanur (a beach town close to the capital) and traveling around Denpasar to various orphanages. I am planning on comparing the religious aspect of four orphanages, one Hindu, one Christian, one Muslim, and one non-religious. As I begin to do research I have found numerous sources describing the corruption in the orphanages and a disturbing news report revealing the corruption on a majority of the 80 orphanages in Bali. For my safety, I have been instructed to avoid reporting on the corruption. I have a feeling the corruption will be only the first of many issues that I will encounter during my month of independent study.
My family is sad that I am leaving so soon, but I will live with them for a couple days again in May. Since I am finally getting my health under control, it may be better to find my own food for a while.
I will miss my little sisters, the rats, the birds, and the dog barking all night.
My family is sad that I am leaving so soon, but I will live with them for a couple days again in May. Since I am finally getting my health under control, it may be better to find my own food for a while.
I will miss my little sisters, the rats, the birds, and the dog barking all night.
my ring
little sisters
got to get back to studying for finals!
Shelly
Thursday, March 21, 2013
The Village
Wednesday:
We had Thursday morning off to conduct our village interviews. Mine is on the animals in the homes. I asked who takes care of them, their use, and their profit. Thursday night was our last night in the village. At 4 pm a big truck pulled through on the one road in the village and stopped. We all climbed in with several of the village children and rode for over an hour to a temple called Tanah Lot. It is located on the edge of a cliff overlooking the ocean. Here we watched the sunset. It was a lot of fun to ride through the villages, and town in the back of a big truck. On the ride back we sat down and looked up at the stars.
On Friday morning we packed up and headed out of the village for the north side of Bali.
Kak Shelly
Saturday, March 16, 2013
Elephant Safari Park
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Its 1935 in Bali!
We have been back in Bali for a week now. We have been working on our art projects and working on our Indonesian speaking skills. I decided to make batik for my art project. I spilt a lot of hot wax on my hand and canvas. However, the teacher was able to melt the wax off.

We also visit a spa where we stuck our feet into a tank and the fish ate the dead skin off of our feet. It was incredibly weird, but my feet were much smoother afterwards.
We visited the south side of the island and went to dreamland beach on our free weekend. I swam in the Indian Ocean for the first time! I must say I miss the beach of South Carolina. The beaches of Bali are polluted and covered with salespeople. Since it is the rainy season the rivers are overflowing and pouring into the ocean all of the trash. I see tourists and locals throw trash on the ground all of the time. I didn't like swimming with trash all around me. The Salespeople range from toddlers to great grandparents selling massages, bracelets, jewelry, ice cream, baskets, just about anything you can think of. I recently learned that the children selling on the beaches are often forced to sell instead of attend school and receive a lot of abuse from tourists, parents, and bosses. I admit I was annoyed when I was awoken from my nap to buy a bracelet, but for these people, it is the only lifestyle that they know. They feel they have no other choice than to travel beach chair to beach chair asking for business.
Tuesday...
Tuesday marks the first day of 1935! However, at 6 am, all electricity is turned off. No one is allowed to leave their family compound until 6 am the next day. This marks 24 hours of no cars, no motorbikes, and no lights throughout Bali. Police patrol the streets and fine locals and tourists who break the rules. This day is meant to convince spirits to leave. There are also no flights coming in or out of Bali.
So what do you do all day?
Well i slept. Literally ALL day. I woke up feeling sick and stayed in bed all day. The day is meant to spend with your family and just get a break from your everyday life. My Bapak went to work at 4am on Tuesday and had to stay until after 6 the next day. He works at a hotel and tourists still eat even when everywhere else is silent.
Now what do you do if you are sick and need to go to a doctor?
Well I would have liked to go to the doctor... I couldn't swallow and I was too dizzy to walk. But there is nothing open unless you are literally dying. There is an emergency transport to the hospital, but other than that... Everyone is stuck.
The night of the Nyepi, the rat that lives in my room decided to make an appearance. I saw him climb into my closet and on the floor. When I opened the closet door he ran across my room. I later discovered he has eaten some crackers that were in my purse. He won't be living with me much longer especially if I find some holes in my clothing.
The rest of the week is full of classes, art projects, and preparing to move into the village next week.
Dah-Dah (bye bye) for now.
Lots of love, Kak Shelly
Saturday, March 2, 2013
Saying Goodbye

On Friday we packed our belongings and headed to UGM for our midterm. Since our final month is spent doing independent projects, we only have one more month of group classes. The midterm was on everything we have experienced while we have been in Java.
Saturday was a lounging day. We slept in and enjoyed the air conditioning in our hotel.
Saturday afternoon we headed to the village to get ready for our dance performance at the final party. We looked ridiculous with the drawn on eyebrows and dark makeup. However, our families loved every second of our dancing.
I passed my mom in the car on the way to the restaurant and she ran up to the car to shake my hand.

I hope to visit Java again before I leave Indonesia. They have offered me their home and their family.
Tomorrow we head back to Bali and our Balinese Families. I look forward to seeing my little sisters, but I already miss my family here in Java.
Dah-Dah (bye bye) for now.
Lots of love, Kak Shelly
From Left to Right,
Nysa (Cousin), Ibu, Me, Novan (brother), Bapak
Far Right
Kindi (brother)
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Embracing Java
Wednesday was packed with activity. After our Indonesian class, we headed for a hotel that gave a lecture on making batik. We then made our own t-shirt design, and tried out batik. We made handkerchiefs. Batik is a lot harder than it looks. The wax is hot and pours out of the pen very fast. But... I LOVE IT! I am switching my art project in Bali to Batik. I am also still taking a jewelry making class.
my design turning blue
When I returned home Kindi was drawing in the coloring book I bought him. He played with it for about 4 hours. I also saw him draw on four or five of the house walls... Maybe that is why he didn't have crayons before?
Earlier in the week, Markie bought a guitar from the market. I asked Nysa (cousin) if she could give us a couple of pointers and she said Wednesday was good for her! Nysa surprised us by inviting over a couple of her guitar playing friends. Family friend and Novan's English teacher joined the party with her sister as well as my mom, Kindi, Markie, Alex, and another neighbor. We played American and Indonesian songs and sang along. They helped us with our Indonesian and I we tried to help Novan with his English.
We then asked Nysa and her friends if they could help us with the presentation we were preparing for the next day. It is on religion in America. They agreed and asked several questions beginning with... Indonesia has 5 religions, but America only has 1. We were stunned. They thought everyone in America was Christians. Their next question was what do Americans think of Muslims after the terrorist attacks. They were very pleased when we explained that Americans are not anti-Islam and that it is only a small group of ignorant Americans that group all Muslims with the terrorists.
We continued to talk about religion and the differences in America. Later in the night, a neighbor asked me what i knew about Islam. He asked me to compare it with Christianity. I was terrified I would make a wrong assumption or comparison. However, he seemed pleased when I stated I thought of Muslims as peaceful people and that I could recall how Islam began. He continued to quiz me for the remainder of the evening on my knowledge on Islam and my pronunciation of Indonesian words.
Dah-Dah (bye bye) for now.
Lots of love, Kak Shelly
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Java
My Java Family:
My mom's name is Endah and my dad's name is Sigit. The grandmother's name is Sadiyat.
My 6 year old brother's name is Kindi. Kindi loves soccer and to run around the house. He is still shy around me, but I can always hear him throughout the house. He has posters of his favorite soccer team from Barcelona on his walls.
Novan is my 15 year old brother. He is usually at school or hanging out with his friends. He is a typical teenager. He can speak some English and plays the guitar.
Nisa is a cousin of Novan and Kindi, but she lives with the family. She attends college at a local university and is 22 years old. She found me on facebook and twitter within 24 hours of my arrival. She can also speak some English and has helped me adapt to Java.
At every event in the village there have been prizes. The prices are generally kitchen tools, containers, water bottles, or glass bowls. Half of the time the children win the prizes and end up giving them to their parents. My number was drawn at the walk and I won a glass bowl. The Dean of UGM then lead us around the village to visit a dagger maker, weavers, and purse makers. We got to experience first hand the life of an artist. That afternoon we were also supposed to attend a dance show, but I accidentally fell asleep and missed the show. I slept through the night for a total of 14 hours.
Missing my cat Charlie at home, I found a cat laying on the gravestone of the founder. I picked the cat up and held her for about 20 minutes. The students couldn't understand why I liked cats and why I wasn't afraid. The cat seemed sick and possibly pregnant. She purred in my lap and cried when I left. I hope the students will pet her now that I showed them she is nice. I tried to take her with me, but (lucky for you mom and Charlie), no one would loan me a bag.
On Tuesday we had class followed by a lecture on Christianity in Indonesian. The speaker asked if we thought Indonesia was religious. He stated:
“You are not religious just because you are raised in a religion... You are religious if it affects your life... Do you see your neighbors as your brothers and sisters? If no, then you are not religious.”
We then visited a Catholic Church in Java. It was beautiful. They had the typical Javanese Gamelan and beautiful green architecture. A temple also rested on church grounds.
Tuesday night, we went to the Ramayan Ballet. It was awesome to hear the live music and the story. We all loved the costumes. The Ballet only sat about 1000 people so every seat had a great view.
Today we are making batik shirts.
We will only be in Java for 4 more days and then we are headed back to Bali.
Dah-Dah (bye bye) for now.
Lots of love, Kak Shelly
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